Showing posts with label mission. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mission. Show all posts

Friday, September 30, 2011

The Outhouse

Good Morning,

     Just setting here watching the snowflakes fly. The fields are mostly planted, and the sound of crop dusters has been silenced today. Quite cold too. We are only getting a dustin', the rest of the state is covered with snow, several places are reporting a foot of snow.  Made me think of days gone by...good days.

     My Dad was the pastor of a little mountain church at Cove Creek, the church sat next to the creek it was named for, and the low water bridge would cause you to have a prayer meeting before you ever arrived at the church, if it had rained. The old saying, "I'll be there if the creek don't rise", was a true life experience!
     In Winter, we would huddle around the potbelly stove, and pity the poor soul that couldn't 'hold it'! The trips to the outhouse were never pleasant, but worse by far in the winter! Females had to learn to stand, and remove as little of necessities as possible, in order to take care of nature and not freeze! Because, if you failed to maintain your stance, you worried more than about frostbite, while your backside was stuck to the toilet seat! ( Oh, we were 1st class, we put a real toilet seat on our wooden stools!), course you didn't really want to call for help due to the delicate nature of our position! Don't even get me started on the spiders, and other critters that took up residences inside those little buildings! Skunks tended to want to raise their little ones inside these shacks...

     When Dad left that church, to pastor the little Indian Mission church in Oklahoma, we were really moving up in the world! We had two potbellied stoves there, and until we remodeled, there were the 'infamous' outhouses, but we had two-holers, Oh yes, two women could take care of nature, and cut down on the line, see.  One of the stoves was up front and one in the back of the church, you either sat in the 'Amen Section', or the 'backsliders roost'!  Honestly, you just sat at which stove gave out the most heat, some days the stoves were cranky and wouldn't work properly.  Mom and Dad would always get to church early enough to take off the chill from the sanctuary, course that meant for us, it was a cold wait, but we stayed busy.  Us children had dreams of stardom, we were gonna be in a singing group, we'd get up there and sing, and play (well, made noise anyhow) on the old piano, drums, anything we could get our hands on. We wanted to make sure we got in enough practice. I remember several days when my Dad would say, "Children, you've got that song down just as good as your going too."  Nope, we never gave up, see we had an Aunt and Uncle whose family had a singing group, they had made a record, and we were walking in tall cotton...cause they were 'kinfolks!' That was big time! You couldn't climb any higher than that, you had arrived! They could sing, and what anointing, my aunt was also a songwriter, the best, and when they would come hold our churches concerts, not only was it great services...but visiting time! We love them dearly, and have shared many wonderful memories through the years with them.
     Spring, Summer, Fall, and Winter we were in church. When the doors were open, you went. No questions, sick or otherwise, it was church time. Church was first, because God was first, and God always blessed us in return. I do remember a few scary moments in these trips back and forth to church. Poor Mom and Dad, how many times would we drive to church, up and down those ice and snow covered mountains! Dad would drive down one mountain, make it to the top of another, and get out and gauge how bad the next mountain was. I can still see mother, sitting bundled with the baby on her lap, her pretty hair done up in curls, worry furrows on her face, cautioning Dad to be careful. And us children bundled till only our eyes and long hair were visible, of course, now mind you, with seven children there was also constant comments and advice from our knowledgeable heads! My mother would mention on occasion that "Silence is Golden!" hmmmm, wonder what she meant? Part of the time he would drive with one wheel in grass (for traction) and the other one on solid ice on the road. God was mighty good to us! She would not be happy to hear I had told this, so let's just keep it between us shall we? Once, I remember Mom said, "Herbert, (that was Dad) just let me and the children get out and walk!" and she meant it. You can go pretty fast, without even trying to, down those mountain roads in the winter!
    
     Mom and Dad had seven children to raise, feed, clothe, and care for, the little churches didn't pay enough to support all those mouths, so Dad needed a second job, and with all us children roaming around, they thought it best if we roam on farmland rather than streets.  I remember the the winters of milking, Dad bringing the milkers and lines in the house to sit by the stove, so he could milk the next morning...frozen lines were worthless, and the cows had to be milked! I can see him huddling over the electric heater, trying to warm his hands in between milk cycles...so the poor cows wouldn't jump out of their skins when his cold hands put the milkers on them. He'd bundle up and take a thermos of coffee to the milk barn. In real bad weather, it took both Mom and Dad working over there in the mornings and evenings both, usually mornings she was making breakfast, and ensuring that we managed to get to the school bus on time. We always made better time to catch the bus if there was snow on the ground, we'd do a little sledding down the hill!  I will never forget how we had to haul water when the house lines would freeze, I sure hated it. We carried big buckets of water back and forth from the barn...up and down 2 steep hills, crossed the creek and arrived with clothes frozen stiff, from where it had splashed on us, lids always got knocked off, and the big buckets would only be half full of water, after the slipping and sliding trip we took to get from the house to the barn! Good days...hard days...but good.

My little chicks are comfortable...sitting in the LR, stove and heat lamp keeping them steady at 90* (this is their 2nd week!!)
The liquid poo, has eased. Thank God! We are so pleased to see those little chicks, hear their chirping and watch them grow. It is a comforting sound, and one that the whole family has taken an interest in! We've begun to call the parsonage "The Rev.'s Farm!" Who knew this city boy of mine would love the country as much as I?

Also placed a picture of one of the crop dusters over the church.
http://i260.photobucket.com/albums/ii15/parsonswife/Easter08028Small.jpg


Y'all Come
The Parson's Wife

Friday, September 16, 2011

Brush Arbor Revivial

     There is so much that I have to delete, and simply keep to myself...but you must, you absolutely must keep a sense of humor in the ministry.
     I have been asked numerous times if my husband uses our children and myself  as 'sermon material'. Yes, he certainly does!  Some funny, some not so funny. I have set on pew #2 all my life (my grandmother was a pastors wife, my mother is one, and now I) I love church times, and all the funny stories that I have...they are precious to me! My dad used to pastor and Indian mission church, we went to church with the Pathkillers, Tenkillers, Sixkillers, Polecat's, and a multitude of other precious people who helped make such wonderful stories. One of my Dad's favorite stories he liked to reenact, involved a brush arbor revival, I was too little to remember the one he speaks of, but I remember many others in my lifetime! The brush arbors we've had, and been too! Wonderful memories! My Dad would hold a Brush Arbor Revival every year, and we all looked forward to them, especially as children (there were seven us children running around), it was something different & it was OUTSIDE!!
     My husband had never been to one, about 7 seven years ago my husband preached his 'first brush arbor' meeting, after much preparation, prayer, and anxiety the revival started! He didn't know what to expect, he was a little hesitant, but accepted the invitation. We were so excited, so thrilled with the opportunity to minister in this new setting! We wanted to see people saved! And on that first night, we had one convert....a big calico cat! That cat wondered through the benches and chairs, under people legs, purring, rubbing any available leg! When the Rev. gave the altar call, up strolled that cat, bold as brass, and lolled under the altar. He layed there and slapped at the bottom of the altar for awhile, would turn and eyeball the audience, then he jumped up on top of the altar, flipped upside down, stretched, hung perilously close to the edge causing it's own excitement, meowed, and meowed,  etc....needless to say people were more interested in the cat...than spiritual things! I never could get that cat to come to me! ( I pulled out baby treats..I even opened my baby's bottle and poured some of the milk on the ground to attract it)...Oh how he preached, oh how he invited people to come pray, and oh how they watched that cat!! He finally knelt to pray himself, and it just so happened to be next to the cat, (who was quickly whisked out of sight!)
It seems it's the ridiculous times that stick out the most...and we have the most laughs about, they tend to be the most memorable.

jumpy
Ya'll Come
The Parson's Wife